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Aug 23 • 1 min read

Appraisal Theory and Dealing with Worry - Saturday Letter #3


Appraisal Theory and Dealing with Worry - SL#3

We often hear: “Worry is unnecessary and self-sabotaging.”

But worry isn’t intrinsically bad.

Everyone feels it. From you and me to the greatest athletes, leaders, and thinkers.

It evolved to protect us from potential threats.

It becomes counterproductive if it leads to self-destructive patterns.

Appraisal theory argues that our mind reacts with a fight, flight, or freeze response, based on the resources it believes it has.

In short:

Human sees mammoth (life threat).
Human sees friends, muscles, spears (resources).
Human confident.

Human sees potential mate (threat to self-image).
Human sees ugly face (resources).
Human freeze.

Both humans received cortisol and adrenaline, but their nervous systems responded differently.

Don’t try desperately to avoid worry. Next time you feel it, train your brain to interpret it positively by breathing in, evaluating the situation, and taking action accordingly.

All the best,

Hugo Ares,
Student of life.


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